This past weekend marked one of the most exciting traditions in sports: college football rivalry weekend. These iconic games showcase intense competition, storied traditions, and passionate fan bases. Rivalries like these represent more than just wins and losses—they embody shared history, mutual respect, and the spirit of competition at its finest.
My first introduction to this tradition was the 1974 matchup between Texas and Texas A&M, Earl Campbell’s freshman year. I attended the game with my grandfather, an A&M alum, and my uncle, a proud Longhorn. The game, played on A&M’s home field, was fierce yet respectful. Even with the intensity of the rivalry, the experience left me with a deep appreciation for the traditions and respect that defined the game.
Today, I worry that this balance is being lost. Rivalry games have begun to reflect the divisiveness and hostility that dominate our broader culture. Acts like planting flags on opponents’ fields have become increasingly common. While such acts might feel like bold celebrations, they send a message of disrespect—not just to opponents but to the game itself. Imagine how you’d feel if the tables were turned. Would it inspire admiration or deepen resentment?
This weekend, however, we saw a shining example of leadership that deserves recognition. After the University of Texas’ historic win over Texas A&M at Kyle Field—securing their spot in the SEC championship—head coach Steve Sarkisian made a great decision. He stopped Longhorn fans from planting their flag at the center of the Aggies’ field. In doing so, he reminded us all what leadership and sportsmanship look like.
Sarkisian pointed out that Texas fans wouldn’t want A&M doing the same on their home turf and emphasized the animosity such actions would foster. By preventing this inflammatory act, he upheld the traditions of the rivalry while keeping the focus on his team’s accomplishment. His actions demonstrate that respect for your opponent is just as important as celebrating your victory.
This type of leadership is sorely needed, not just in sports but in our broader culture. The rise of social media, cultural wars, and toxic political environments has reshaped how we approach competition, creating a “win-at-all-costs” mentality that glorifies humiliation over sportsmanship. Rivalry games have become arenas for mockery and disrespect rather than celebrations of shared history and tradition.
Rivalry games aren’t about enemies—they’re about worthy adversaries. The respect between opponents is what elevates these contests into defining moments in sports history. Coaches like Sarkisian remind us that victory is sweeter when celebrated with dignity and respect.
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